i don't care how weird you are, however, you are my brother.

"Sister, you know what? i passed the exam! i managed it well! i'm happy.."
that was the short message that my brother sent to me after the announcement of his final exam.
i was surprised, and happy too.

honestly, at first i was doubtful to him. not only me, Dad and Mom also the same. it's not weird, remembering that he never passed the trial exams before. especially in Math. he just got 1.5 or the best one was 2.25. how tragic.

after read the message, told him how i am happy to know that and gave him a greeting, i asked him how about the mark. and he replied..
" I got 7.40 in Bahasa, 6.60 in English, 4.25 in Math, 5.50 in Economy, 7.40 in Sosiology, and 6.00 in Geography. I don't care about the mark. i'm proud i could pass the Math. even i just got 4.25. The point is I PASSED THE EXAM! "

then i thought ' heh? how can you proud of yourself? you didn't even get more than 7.5 in Sosiology.. '
i was about to send that text, when i remembered what Daddy ever said..
 " Don't even push him to get the same with you. he is different. he may not has a good ability in his study, but sure, he already knows the best way to find what he wants and what he needs. study is not a priority anymore for him. he must be great in something else. "

and i remembered when i told him to take a 'shortcut', to make everything's easier. but he answered..
 " NEVER! I choose to be failed and unsuccessful but i do everything just by myself, than i must do something's dishonest and being a cheater! "
wow.. i was speechless. i must admit, he is kind and honest..
i decide to delete the text and write the new ones..
" Yes, that's not a problem. you did everything by yourself. not only you who's proud, WE ARE also proud of you. you are great, you are excellent, you are our pride.. mark is not the biggest deal. the most important is YOU DO UNDERSTAND.. "

MESSAGE SENT.












the only thing i can feel now is.. I'm Proud of My Brother, I Love Him.. 

why do we call it FRIEND ?

many of them describing that word as :

friend is someone who likes you to be ..
friend is someone who can makes you to be yourself ..
friend is someone who appreciates your kindness , and doesn't have an objection with your weakness ..

with friend you can share so many laugh , happiness , secret , thought , or may even sadness ..

just like that ?
NO !
that's just the outer casing .

friend has more complicated words to describe .

as a matter of fact , we need friend to supports us keep walking in our right way , keep struggling to pick our obsession , and running together to achieve our destination ..

but when it runs away from the truly meaning , do we can still call it as friend ?

Istirahat, Penting!

Wow, setelah melalui satu minggu yang melelahkan saya berpikir 'kenapa banyak orang yang mengurangi waktu istirahat untuk alasan meningkatkan produktivitas?'.

Manajemen waktu. Itu yang penting.

Salam.

Washink.

Time Value Of Decision

Halo, kawan.

Pernah mendengar istilah 'time value of money'? Sebenarnya saya mendapatkannya di kelas akuntansi yang sedikit 'membosankan'. Kira-kira begini, seorang pelaku ekonomi sudah diasumsikan akan lebih cenderung memegang uang saat ini daripada masa yang akan datang.

Tapi sekarang saya akan sedikit mengubah istilah itu. Bagaimana kalau 'time value of decision'?

Seorang pemimpin diwajibkan cepat dan tepat dalam memutuskan suatu hal. Benar, kan? Dan pemimpin tidak boleh 'menjilat' kembali perkataannya.

Mungkin begitu besar artinya seorang jenderal mampu memberi komando yang tepat dalam peperangan jika tidak, ratusan prajuritnya mungkin akan terbunuh sia-sia. Atau broker-broker saham memainkan insting yang tepat dalam mengambil keputusan sebelum mendapatkan rugi bermilyar-milyar. Satu detik berarti kesempatan.

Memang dalam tulisan saya sebelum ini pernah menyatakan bahwa kesempatan tidak hanya datang sekali. Tapi banyak hal urgent membutuhkan ketepatan serta kecepatan dalam memutuskan dan bertindak.

In a different time and place the words could make more sense.

Salam.

Washink

kue MOCI dan sedikit FILOSOFI


dear all ..

i thank God it's Wednesday .
for me , Wednesday is a weekend in the middle week bcs i don't need to go to college to find some 'hard lesson' .

day off ..

oke , temenku baru aja pulang dari mudik. rumahnya daerah Jawa Barat. kayaknya dia bawa banyak oleh-oleh jadinya tiap kamar di kostku dijatah oleh-oleh sama dia .

yang paling menarik perhatianku adalah sebuah bungkusan kue moci ..

*jangan bilang ada yang gg tau kue moci yaa . saya susah jelasinnya lagi*

aku pernah beberapa kali makan kue itu .
kue yang lembutnya bagai marshmallow dan bentuknya bagai buih sabun ..
tapi aku gg pernah mengamati sampe sebegitu 'mikir' sebelumnya ..

"kenapa kue mungil , lembut , halus , mudah rapuh itu musti dibungkus dengan bungkusan dari bilah bambu yang keras , nggak berbentuk , awut2an dan terkesan asal-asalan ? kenapa bukan diwadahi dengan kardus cantik dihiasi gambar warna-warni ?"

waktu aku tanya temenku itu dia bilang "ah , ngga ngerti juga . biar keliatan khas aja kali yaa .."

oke , jawaban yg cukup reliable . mungkin karena di Jawa Barat banyak bambu kali ya jadinya biar terkesan 'Jawa Barat banget'. may be that's why kue moci dimana-mana bungkusnya kayak gitu , dan yang bungkusnya kayak gitu ya pasti kue moci .

yaa , masuk di akal laah ..

bisa juga karena si 'penemu' kue moci ini mau mengaplikasikan kata-kata 'Don't Judge a Book By Its Cover' kali yaa .. mungkin waktu itu dia ngejual ke konsumen sambil berkata 'Lu jangan liat wadahnya , rasain isinya !'

check , masuk di akal juga ..

tapi aku punya pemikiran lain ..
listen ,
kue moci itu kan kecil , lembut , mudah rapuh , jadi ya bukankah memang seharusnya dia terbungkus oleh wadah yang kokoh , kuat , sangar , biar gg dikit-dikit penyok kesenggol barang lain , ntar akhirnya rusak , dan gg bisa dimakan kan ?

kalian harus mengakui bahwa ini juga masuk di akal !

so now let's take the points to lesson guys !
1. kata temenku tadi kue moci dibungkus bambu tuh biar khas. it means that you don't need to be a beauty then you make your body over from top to toe . if you want to make a trademark , just be yourself and improve your INNER ..

2.kalo yang menurut prediksiku tentang pikiran si 'penemu' yang mengaplikasikan 'Dont judge a book by its cover' , udah jelas dibahas dimana-mana laah that you can't blame someone just based by what you look on their physical ..

3.sekarang menurut pendapatku ..
seseorang yang hatinya lembut , halus , mudah rapuh terkadang nggak akan membiarkan keadaan sebenarnya dalam dirinya itu terlihat oleh orang lain agar tidak mudah disakiti. memasang wajah sangar dan waspada tentunya akan membuat mereka merasa lebih aman dan sedikit menguatkan diri ..


lagi-lagi aku mendapati diriku memiliki kesamaan dengan benda-benda mati ..


oke , selamat BELAJAR , guys ..


berdua belajar dewasa ..

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Today, I'm sitting here for now
on this old tribune after all these lonely travels
longing for the atmosphere all to come again
I'll take the choice to make it better than before

So now, I'm sitting here...

Give me an occasion to find about myself
and correct me if I'm wrong, it's at your disposal
I'm sorry if I'm selfish, that's my adventure
I just try the harder way to be better than before

So now, I would be sitting here...

And someday I found that wind have crashed my wings
I'm going down to be...
back like I am, one that I'm not supposed to be
but I'm fine with you here, hold my hands

and help me find myself again

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